Whether you are about to get married,
newly married or have been married for years, it doesn’t matter, these marriage
tips will definitely help you get a successful marriage.
newly married or have been married for years, it doesn’t matter, these marriage
tips will definitely help you get a successful marriage.
1. If you’re not good at forgiving you
can not have a successful marriage. Sometimes your partner makes mistakes and
you’ve got to be willing to forgive.
can not have a successful marriage. Sometimes your partner makes mistakes and
you’ve got to be willing to forgive.
2. Getting married is not going to
save your relationship with your partner. If you had a terrible relationship
with your partner before marriage, it will more likely get worse after
marriage.
save your relationship with your partner. If you had a terrible relationship
with your partner before marriage, it will more likely get worse after
marriage.
3. If you want a successful marriage,
you have to be selfless, and avoid being selfish. Consider carefully what
impact your choices have on your partner.
you have to be selfless, and avoid being selfish. Consider carefully what
impact your choices have on your partner.
4. Your husband married you because he
wanted to have a wife and not a mum. Stop trying to be like his mum by
dictating all he does.
wanted to have a wife and not a mum. Stop trying to be like his mum by
dictating all he does.
5. Accept your husband for what he is
and not what you want him to be for. Today, many marriages struggle because
many have failed to appreciate their spouse.
and not what you want him to be for. Today, many marriages struggle because
many have failed to appreciate their spouse.
6. You have to go into marriage with
an open heart because there are certain habits that you won’t know about your
spouse until you start living with him after you get married.
an open heart because there are certain habits that you won’t know about your
spouse until you start living with him after you get married.
7. Never speak publicly negatively of
your husband. Protect your husband’s image.
your husband. Protect your husband’s image.
8. If you are going through a
difficult time in your marriage, and not your family or friends, it is always
preferable that you meet a counselor for advice. That’s because not the most
objective people to give advice are your family and friends.
difficult time in your marriage, and not your family or friends, it is always
preferable that you meet a counselor for advice. That’s because not the most
objective people to give advice are your family and friends.
9. Love is not just a feeling but a
commitment as well. Love will fade away, without the commitment to remain in
love.
commitment as well. Love will fade away, without the commitment to remain in
love.
10. Never compare your husband to any
other husband. This is not good for your marriage, because unrealistic
expectations are created.
other husband. This is not good for your marriage, because unrealistic
expectations are created.
11.Don’t just be his wife, but also be
his best friend. If you and your husband are best friends, your marriage will
more likely stand the test of time.
his best friend. If you and your husband are best friends, your marriage will
more likely stand the test of time.
12. Respect is a significant trait
found in every successful marriage. Have respect for your husband. Don’t
publicly belittle him, and make him feel irrelevant.
found in every successful marriage. Have respect for your husband. Don’t
publicly belittle him, and make him feel irrelevant.
13. Learn to wisely pick your battles.
Overlook the little things, and don’t make anything big from nothing. In a
successful marriage no-one wins an argument.
Overlook the little things, and don’t make anything big from nothing. In a
successful marriage no-one wins an argument.
14. It is wrong to expect your husband
to understand why you’re angry. Get to learn how to communicate your feelings.
to understand why you’re angry. Get to learn how to communicate your feelings.
15. Love you. Love you. If you don’t
love yourself you can not love your husband because you can’t give what you
don’t have.
love yourself you can not love your husband because you can’t give what you
don’t have.
